Procrastination and time
A person does not become successful overnight, but behind it is his consistent hard work and dedication.
Have you not seen families who were very happy at one time and were very rich but by misusing money they made their family miserable? Have you not seen many families who were very troubled before but He made his family a very prosperous rich and happy family by being thrifty by using money properly.
Suppose you give two thousand rupees to your two children, one child should spend the money very wisely and in a very good way and he should see which things are more important and which things are less. What can be enjoyed less and more later. While the other child buys everything he sees without thinking about these things, who do you think will be happier and more satisfied, surely he will be the one who has spent money wisely. The point is to explain that money, which is the least important thing, if not used wisely, will not bring the happiness that it can, and on the other hand, it is possible to regret it later. When this is the case with a less important thing like money, what happens in the case of a precious thing like time? If a person does not use time honestly, is it possible that he will not regret it later? Both in this world and in that world.
The lack of time
Allah Ta'ala said in the Holy Qur'an that you thank Me and I will give you more, and if you are ungrateful to Me, My punishment is also severe (Surah Ibrahim verse 7).
The greater the disrespect, the greater the punishment. Time is the greatest blessing of Allah. If it is used correctly, Allah has promised that He will give more to those who are grateful, and we know that the correct use of something is gratitude. is a high example of and misuse of something is infidelity or ingratitude.
Time is such a precious commodity in the eyes of Allah that He gives every human being 24 hours every day to live a full and successful life without discrimination, that is, equal time for everyone in the day and night. One who uses it well will be happy and one who uses it badly will be sad.
One of the major problems in the life of mothers is that they don't have time management and even after being taught they can't learn well, so I thought of writing something specifically for this purpose so that they Be able to organize your life very well by taking care of things.
Now let's see what are the six things that we will organize our life by taking care of them and see how they will benefit.
People who don't help their life, they have to pay a heavy price, you must have seen that children who don't work hard in matric, they don't get good result, they have to pay the price of this carelessness all their life and regret it. It lasts for the whole life so the children who work hard get the benefit of it for the whole life so we can see in many places that we can bring discipline in our life by taking care of the little things. Can do better our life.
Avoid unimportant tasks
Before mentioning these six things, let me tell you one important thing. I can say that every time I have asked this question, after receiving the answer, I have realized that people do not have the right concept of "important work" in their minds.
Before reading further, consider the answer that what is meant by important work?
Important work refers to the work that brings you closer to your goal or brings you closer to your destination, as opposed to any work that is not bringing you closer to the goal. It is not important but unimportant work. Know what important work and what unimportant work you are doing throughout the day.
It is important to clarify what is meant by important work, good health, financial resources, happy relationships with friends and relatives, spiritual and mental growth and above all, relationship with Allah Almighty. The balance of all these things is very important.
What is the first thing to do to establish balance?
Daily to-do list
To bring modesty in life, you have to make a to-do list.
An effective way to get the most out of your work is to make a daily to-do list before you go to bed or first thing in the morning. Some people write down the five most important tasks of the day and which work has to be done at what time. Write it according to the method that suits you. While making the list, keep in mind that whether you are doing important work or unimportant work throughout the day, also take care of the important aspect in life. Pay attention if you are giving too much time to friends or relatives due to which worship is being interrupted or you are so engrossed in professional responsibilities that you are not able to give time to children for health and hair. If so, keep these things in mind and plan for the next day as per the need of the time.
Remember the 80/20 rule when making a list
This is BB and it is taught to MBA students and I try to convey this principle to all people in an easy way.
This principle is also called the Prieto Principle or the Eighty-Twenty Principle. 80% of these problems are caused by 20% mistakes. A wrong person does not do wrong things all the time. Thus, successful people do not spend all their time in an extraordinary way, but 20% of their work creates 80% of change. How many famous and worthy people have we seen, when we spend long time with them, we realize that there is nothing very remarkable about them or anything in their life that makes the world so special to them? Gives importance. We don't see the 20% color of their personality, thanks to which they lead a wonderful life.
So while making the list, make a special place for the tasks that can bring big benefits in the future
It is said that "overnight success requires a twenty year struggle".
Overnight success is definitely 20 years of hard work.
A person does not become successful overnight, but behind it is his consistent hard work and dedication.
Another important thing to do is to list the 20 percent of your life that are most important to you at the top of the list. Do it first.
What is the reason why most of us remain incomplete?
In fact, we start with simple and interesting tasks first. In this way, serious or future benefiting tasks are forgotten.
Meet the right people
Once again the question will arise in your mind that what is meant by the right people has the same answer that those who bring you closer to your destination and goal does not mean those friends and relatives who They are not supporting us in the fulfillment of our goal, they are not the right people, it is not so. Just be careful not to give so much time to friends etc that you don't have time for other things later.
Keep in mind what kind of people you want to meet, good and positive people and then decide how long you want to meet them. If you want to meet, then you should meet for half an hour. When half an hour is over, you will have to leave your meeting. It is a fact that people who have discipline in their life can enjoy life a lot.
Learn to say no
The fifth thing is that learn to say no, learn to refuse. There are many such things that you do not refuse in Marwat, but you support doing something. This usually happens in Marwat. Helping people is a good thing, but you can't say yes to everyone. Once I called a psychologist in one of my TV programs. During the up program, the life calls of different viewers are included in the TV program, there is a shortage of time, so everyone's calls cannot be included. He had a lot of money Coincidentally, on that day, a Khan was listening to the calls. He was very worried. He had a lot of money. Ali lived in Shanvard. He was a servant, but there was no one to talk to him. Both of them had two sons. They were going to earn money outside the country She was very depressed due to loneliness and asked me that somehow you should talk to a psychologist. By chance, the time of the program was over and her call could not be transferred. The woman said, "Let me talk for five minutes after the program. I told the doctor to do it after five minutes. He is very worried. The doctor replied, 'Brother, five minutes, five minutes, problems are not solved.'" And if we keep talking like this for five minutes, the most important things will not be done systematically I know that Dr. is a busy man and is successfully running a very important institution. I realized that if we keep saying yes to everything, we won't have time to do things that won't solve a lot of people's problems. We have to say no because we have already said yes to some other things. Saying no does not mean saying no to everything. You should be so conscious of what work to say yes to and what work to say no to.
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